I have always thought that the polished woman is the woman that attracts the polished man. At least that has been my experience. When a gay man comes up to you for beauty tips, honey you’re doing something right, they only acknowledge DIVAS! By polished I mean that a woman should always be on top of her grooming. Never wear anything that has a button missing or a string hanging. Be on top of that. Buy beautiful flattering shoes and show off you legs. There are few thing sexier than a knee length ciggarette skirt with a crisp white shirt, a nice belt, and a beautiful chain or chocker depending on the style of the blouse. Pearls are always a winner. Every girl should own a pair of pearls and a simple black dress, preferably a tank dress in some type of slinky fabric. You could wear that crisp white shirt over it during the day tied at the waist and ditch the shirt after five. Your shoes should always be fabulous, no scuff, no chewed up heels, when that starts to happen, find a cobbler or ditch the shoes…PERIOD! A diva must have her manicure and pedicure perfect at all times, and I disagree with your article, red nails will be sexy into infinity. The trick is to have the bright red on a short nail, forget the long dragon lady fingernails with the landscape of China on them, they are both dated and dangerous. Ladies, always have a good nail file and a good pumice. Keep the heels of those feet soft at all times. Your feet should be able to run across a silk sheet without leaving snags. Forget soap, buy beautiful smelling scents to bathe in. If you’re using Jasmine, use Jasmine everything, soap, lotion, and a mere hint of fragrance at the busom, wrists and back of hand, just in case someone wants to kiss it. That scent will drift up into his nostrils and intoxicate him. When you get to know him better, you can add that fragrance to your stomach and the inside of your thighs, “very lightly though,” never heavy! Above all else ladies, always be glamous, make it a way of life. You’ll never get caught in rollers if you have sense enough to leave them at home. Ladies, always keep your skin clean when not wearing cosmetics. Invest in a good make-up that flatters your complexion, find the right blush and use a soft lipgloss during the day, but at night, pull out the big guns, that Cherry red lipstick, apply a little of your gloss over the lipstick and pout your way into his heart. Even better would be to buy one of the lipsticks that stays on so when he kisses you, your lips are still beautifully red and his are still whatever they were to start with. Buy a couple of good wigs in different styles and colors if they’re flattering to your complexion. Dare to be bold with your jewlery, if you have a big beautiful ring, wear it, if you have ten big beautiful rings, make a decision. Less is more. Last but certainly not least, lingerie, both that you wear underneath your clothes and the lingerie you sleep in. When selecting bras and panties, try to buy sets. You don’t have to break the bank to own several beautiful sets of underwear. I cringe when I see someone in a white bra with black panties…it’s so fifties. Nowadays you can find a lovely bra and panty ensemble for $10-$20 in some of our popular chair retail stores, Marshalls, TJ Maxx, and there is always Victoria’s Secret and Fredricks of Hollywood. Both fairly inexpensive but masters in the art of seduction. When shopping Fredericks, stay away from the crotchless stuff…..at first anyway. Save that for when you’ve reached some real level of intimacy. Trust me, there is something to be said for a beautiful pink silk lacy transparent pretty bra and bikini panty. And do own a pair of sexy bedroom mules, save the scuffies for retirement.The mules don’t have to be sky high to be sexy. I think I’ve covered most of what I have to give as advice to a woman seeking to seduce a man with polish. There is much, much more, but this is enough to start with.